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The ritual is familiar to me after all these autumns at Wabash. Teary-eyed moms hugging and kissing their sons “one last time” as anxious dads start to drive away, hoping to get well down the street before their own emotions begin to let go.
Then there are the smiling faces of the little brothers and sisters, who are smiling only because they know as big brother leaves for college they’ll inherit bigger rooms and the family car.
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As familiar as the tradition is to all of us at Wabash, it’s important to know that each class is unique and every family is different in the way they approach college. Some parents will come for every home football game; others will never see one. Some freshmen will drive home every other weekend, while some rookies won’t see their parents for a whole year, maybe longer.
So while the sights and emotions of Freshman Saturday at Wabash are recognizable from year to year, I do try to remind myself that for all of these kids Wabash is a completely new experience, one that will be different for each of the 250 new students.
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College freshmen this year have always lived with computers; they’ve probably never dialed a rotary telephone; they’ve never owned a record album; and the console television is as foreign as the Edsel. To them, McDonald’s has always counted its burgers in the billions; “Big Brother” is just a TV show; and a guy with a southern accent has always been president.
In general terms, these guys were born in the mid-eighties, got their driver’s licenses after the turn of the millennium, and virtually all of them will come to campus with cell phones.
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One freshman graduated from high school in three years, another turned down an Ivy League offer to attend Wabash, and a third who was offered an appointment to the US Military Academy. Oh, and several guys in this year’s freshman class were home schooled.
There’s a football player in the class who has decided he wants to play soccer, another who is a championship rower, and there’s even a guy who showed the champion dairy goat at the Indiana State Fair.
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